I brought up the idea of playing with toys to my boyfriend today, and suggested maybe starting with a vibrator and moving to a dildo after. When I mentioned dildo, he asked why I would need something like that if I had him, and I told him just to try something different. He asked what kind of dildo I would even use, and I replied “I don’t know, something normal?”
Once he realized I meant something bigger than him, he seemed to get kind of defensive about it, asking me why. I really didn’t have answer for him so I didn’t say anything, but then he told me if it was something I truly wanted to spice up our sex life, he would be okay with it because he loves me.
So like guys, I might get a dildo? Maybe? It’s clearly gonna be awkward if its much bigger than him.
If you want a dildo bigger than me (or thicker is your complaint) feel free to get any size you want.